I don't usually read daily newspapers, but one article
I read a while in the San Francisco Chronicle
on physical touch caught my attention.
The article is titled "Wives Under Stress Are Soothed By
Husbands' Touch, Study Finds"
Check this out from the article:
"The soothing effect of the touch could be seen in
scans of areas deep in the brain that are involved
in registering emotional and physical alarm."
The REALLY interesting part for me, is that the
the 'touch' they are referring to in this study,
is hand holding.
Now, if you've ever seen me teach kino, I show you how
to be holding hands with a woman within the first THREE
MINUTES of meeting her.
There are other important reasons for holding her hand,
but as this research confirms, you're actions will have an
INSTANT soothing affect on her.
More importantly, she will recognize that you are a MAN who is
comfortable around women. After all, why else would
you be touching her like that from the MOMENT you met
her.
Listen, it took me YEARS of trial and error to figure
out that casual touching, and hand holding in
particular had a massive effect on my success with
women. And here finally is scientific PROOF as to why
that works so well.
To be fair, the researchers noted that this effect is
many times more powerful with married couples, but even
a complete stranger STILL had an effect on the womans
brain.
Just think about that for a minute... you as a total
stranger, can trigger a soothing effect on any woman,
DEEP in her subconscious mind, simply through the use
of a simple touch.
Why on earth would you not touch EVERY woman you wanted
to meet?
Look, I know it's not that easy for MOST guys. Heck,
most of us have been taught it's impolite or we didn't
grow up in the kind of social circle where people touch
each other.
In fact, it's one of the single BIGGEST problems guys
have with women, yet when I can get a guy to start
touching women right away, the results are nothing
short of amazing.
That's why in the Art of Attraction workshop,
(www.pickup101.com/AoA ) we spend hours having you
practice how to use kino. I've developed a series of
training exercises that show you exactly how and when
to use kino in a pickup.
But you're probably wondering "how can I practice
casual touching now", and this is IMPORTANT enough that
I want you to be working on it EVERY DAY, so pay
attention...
In order to get comfortable touching women, you have to
get comfortable with touching EVERYONE. So starting
now, every time you greet someone... touch them.
It can be a handshake, a shoulder pat, a hug, whatever,
just TOUCH them.
Same thing when you want someone's attention, use a
light tap on the arm.
Also, NOTICE how 'touchy people' are with others. ]
Learn from them. And when you're at a nightclub or a
party, notice the men that are good with women and how
they will touch ALL the women.
The goal is simple, use touch as part of the way you
COMMUNICATE so it becomes easy and 'natural' for you.
Then when it comes to touching women, you won't feel
uncomfortable with it.
Lance Mason and his team of experts have created Surefire Attraction Secrets in order to provide
men the foundation to build upon to succeed with women
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