Some guys ruin their chances of being able to pick up women before they even open their mouth.

Whenever I hear a man say that a woman is super hot or that he would rate her either a 9 or 10, I know that he has ruined his chances of success.

Even if he somehow manages to talk to her he has already put her on a pedestal that NOT only will she recognize but his actions or should I say inactions will keep him from building attraction inside of her.

If you have to use a rating system you will increase your chances of success at being able to pick up women if you drop it down to a scale of 1-3.

1 being unattractive

2 being indifferent

3 being attractive

From there you need to make an effort to talk to all the 2's and 3's since realistically these are the women that you would most likely date.

Now, I know it may seem as if dating a 10 would be the greatest thing on earth.

It is easy to imagine yourself "showing" her off to your friends and doing all sorts of fun things with her like she was a trophy or something.

Yet, the truth is any man who believes he is dating a 10 is more than likely going to put up with a whole lot more drama and B.S. than any sane man should put up with.

Also most of the time what you think is a 10 other people might find to be a 6 or 7; in addition there is no such thing as a 10 with morning breath, no makeup and sleep in her eyes.

For those of you who decide to convert to the 3 point system you will begin to find yourself looking for qualities in a woman that are much more important than looks.

If you really think about it for a moment all that should matter in a woman's looks is can you have sex with her or not; if the answer is yes then you can qualify her on other levels to determine if she is the one for you.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com