After she breaks up with you it is important that you find something other than her to direct your energy towards.

When you are in a relationship with a woman a certain amount of your focus and energy is on her.

However, when she breaks up with you, your mind suddenly has a vacancy in regards to your focus and energy.

You minds' initial and natural response is to use that focus and energy to get back that which has been lost; which in this case is a woman who has broken up with you.

Yet, putting your focus and energy on a woman who has broken up with you is the quickest way to lose your power and waste your time and energy in a variety of ways.

This is why it is important that you find something new and/or different on which to focus your time and energy.

For some men this means going out and finding new ways to use your energy; while for others it simply means putting in more time and energy into things you already enjoy doing.

Either way you must begin to spend more time doing things with your mind not involving her and less time on her.

Of course, as you are releasing your mind of her you will spend some time on what she provided for you.

Only now, you are going to create ways in which you still can have what she provided without her if it is something that you indeed still want.

In the end, no matter what happens between you and her, this breakup is going to make you stronger when you decide to redirect your energy on something other than her.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com