What is more painful for you to get rejected by a woman or to simply not approach a woman at all?

If you are like most men, then the pain of rejection is about a hundred times worst than the pain of not approaching a woman at all.

Even though, in reality the results of both are the same; you don't get the girl.

Yet, the truth is that your perception of the reality of what you will experience with a woman isn't really real.

For instance rejection may or may not happen when you approach a woman and not getting the woman is all but guaranteed when you don't approach a woman.

Perhaps you did or did not know this already and even still it doesn't change the fact that it is more painful for you to deal with rejection than it is to simply not approach women.

It is important to understand that you more than likely had no say or choice in the matter of what you chose to experience pain in as that was made by your circle of influence a long time ago.

However, you can decide to change what you choose to experience pain in right now and instantly change your behavior when approaching women.

Of course the key to change is going to be to link pain to not approaching women at such a high level of emotional intensity that you will not even consider not approaching women any longer.

Remember, in order to succeed with women it requires you to be able to handle the possibility of rejection in order to have pleasure with women.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com