Today, I am going to talk about something that I consider to be a serious problem when it comes to succeeding with women.

GAYNESS.

Now, don't get me wrong.  I have nothing against gay people.

However - I do have a problem with normal guys resorting to being something they're not just because they think it will help them get girls.

Why?

Because usually, this type of behavior does more HARM than anything else.

There are guys out there who make these types of mistakes with girls...

1.  Through no fault of their own, they come off as "gay" around women, and find it difficult to convince girls they are actually straight.

2.  They purposefully act gay, because they for some reason they think that girls will respond better to them this way.

3.  They are afraid they might be gay because they can't seem to get girls to feel attracted to them and are confused and frustrated because of it.

4.  They have no idea how to get girls interested in them, so they basically "give up" and allow themselves to be alone and lonely instead of taking the time to learn the right way to get women. (ie: they forsake their manhood)

Believe it or not, I have even counciled some students who wished they WERE gay, because they have had such a difficult time meeting girls, they would rather face the social stigma of being a homosexual than deal with women.

But all this can be boiled down to one simple problem...

Men have NO IDEA how to pick up women!!!!

Really - it's that simple.

Face it - no one ever bothers to train men in the proper way to meet and pick up on women.

There are no classes for it.

There is no degree for it.

There is no training for it.

Most guys have to depend on their friends, their family, and the media for tips on how to get girls.

And this advice is almost always WRONG.

From this wrong advice comes failure, and frustration.

And that leads to even more mistakes.

Let me be clear - there is NO SHAME in seeking help with women.  If you're not happy with your success with the ladies, it's because you are trying to do it on your own.

Most guys are EMBARRASSED to admit they need help with girls.

They think if they seek help with their love life, they are LOSERS.

Because it's supposed to "happen naturally," right?  It's something your supposed to automatically know what to do since BIRTH.

Nope.  Uh-uh.

Sure, some guys figure it out on their own, but they are few and far in-between.

Most guys get "lucky," or they rely on good looks and a fat bank account to get women.

Yet we see them as having some type of "secret information" about women that we don't.

We think there must be something WRONG with us because we have a hard time getting a girl.

But there is NOTHING wrong with us, other than the fact that we haven't yet acquired the knowledge and experience we need to be successful with women.

Once I began to really apply myself to learning everything I could about how to meet, date, and seduce the fairer sex, what once seemed impossible to me became much easier.

And it can become easy for you too - IF you allow yourself to flexibility to learn.

In my course, the Art Of Approaching, I demystify the process of meeting women, and break it down in such a way that ANY man can gain success with my methods.

I will show you:

1.  How to meet any woman without fear or anxiety

2.  How to tell if a woman is interested in you or not.

3.  The right way to flirt with women and generate sexual tension

4.  How to make your move and escalate the physical.

5.  How to get a woman into bed with you

And much, much more.

 Talk soon,

Joseph Matthews is the Author of The Art of Approaching Women a Breakthrough starter kit that will dramatically increase your success with women.