Have you ever been self-conscious on a date with a woman?

You wondered 'how you were doing' and you never really saw any signs of interest from her.

Why aren't women direct and straightforward about their interest? Many reasons but here's a hint: if she wants to see you again, you're doing good.

The idea is to not have to be self-conscious or consciously 'think' about what to do or say.

This self-consciousness will prevent you from being real and natural. It will come across to women in very subtle ways when you're directly in front of her.

Even when I had little nervous idiosyncracies I still often got away with it because I was a quality guy and fairly good-looking.

Not all guys have that kind of leverage though. I don't know what your experience with women has been but reaching a level where things 'just happen' and she wants to be with you more and can't get enough is a lot better place to be than wondering what to do or say on a date.

Other dating guru's have said that all a guy has to do is 'not screw it up' in reference to the dating/mating/attraction process.

I generally agree with that although not the implication that a man is out of control and to try and hide his nervous quirks.

There's a LOT of women that are out there that really want to experience a short or long term relationship.

They just want men to be REAL so they can trust their body around him while never knowing enough about him.

Because women are the ones to 'let a man in', it would behoove you to get women opened up and attracted to you upfront.

And then, throughout the entire process just NOT doing anything that would screw the process up so she can finally experience a real one on one connection with a man.

By being a natural and tuning into sexual communication, you'll be at behavioral levels of 'being' so that like me, you'll always be doing or saying the right things WITHOUT TRYING.

This means, I don't let anything get in the way of the attraction process. It's smooth and progresses forward. It has room to progress forward because I'm not doing anything to throw a wrench in the
process.

If a guy shows too much interest, isn't 'cool' and calls her right after the date and wants to talk for one hour, he's doing things that get in the way of the process.

When he's a natural, he can kind of just 'be there' for women so they both can go through the process that is greater than both of them.

So many times, I've just 'been there' for women and was the guy that DIDN'T screw anything up.

And when you consider women love sex by default, they just have to find a man they can (trust to) go through that process with.

It's a given as long as he doesn't screw it up.

And memorizing the 317 battle plan phases to take a woman through is terrible. If a guy follow's that line of thinking and then misses 1 step, it's all over.

He's so conscious of the whole process that he can't just be 'real'.

Fortunately with my advanced programs, we have a way to actually become that natural alpha male and I lead by example on this.

You'll notice that when you go on dates, you'll automatically be doing the right things as you get more in touch with your natural self and value a woman's nature instead of her level of social value.

Everything will balance into it's proper order, you'll be at ease around extremely beautiful women and they'll have room to GO WITH YOU through the process.

Not screwing things up will give you so many rewards and will allow women to experience many things that they're looking for in a man.

Rion Williams is consider one of the top experts on dating and seduction for men