Sometimes a sh*t test occurs when a girl has to meet you for a first date, but is feeling a bit awkward about it since she is not sure if you are a pick up artist cheesy untrustworthy guy, or if you are a cool guy that just happens to like her and met her outside of the typical social circle of her friends.

She might be late, but if you get pissed off before you even know WHY she was late, you can ruin a potentially good thing.

Maybe she was late because she was so nervous trying to fix herself up to look good, maybe she is late because she's unsure of you, maybe she's late because she doesn't want you to think she's easy.

If she seemed like a pretty damn good girl to begin with, then there might be a good reason for her being late.

Don't let your own insecurities from the past spoil the present and the future.

It's something ELSE if you allow a woman to walk over you, but until she KNOWS YOU, and you find out a bit more about her, you really don't know what is going on, especially if she is woman who is attractive and has no idea yet of the difference between you and the zillion other guys "hitting" on her.

That's why you should be living in the same reality as her, meaning that if you had tons of women interested in you, you would not be so insecure or needy to get jaded so fast.

At the same time, you would also not be idealizing some woman who you don't know yet. You would simply be doing the SMART thing, which is being chilled out and finding out more about her with time.

So, until you are actually getting intimate with a girl and have some trust and rapport seriously going, it doesn't make sense to make conclusions on everything.

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