By David DeAngelo (Q&A Session)

***QUESTION*** 

I am not tall and I am not short. I'm 5' 7" with an athletic build. Sometimes I see women whom I consider very attractive that are taller than me. From my past history I have noticed that MOST women do not want to date men shorter than themselves. In many cases women want to date men considerably taller than themselves, taller than I am.

Is there some strategy to getting past the height thing. I know confidence can conquer almost all but I have been turned away so many times by a taller woman that I don't even try anymore. I am not attracted only to taller women, I just come across some, just like any other woman, I would like to get to know and possibly ask for a date.

J.

>>>David D's Answer:  

As far as success in general is concerned, read "Think And Grow Rich" by Hill. It's all in there.

As far as your successes coming "unplanned", I have some thoughts..

You mentioned that you're acting more Cocky & Funny in general. If you embody the qualities that are naturally attractive to women, then THE CONTENT DOESN'T MATTER. You can talk about anything, and it will work. I've found that I can make women feel attracted to me now just by teasing them and busting on them. I have women ask me out without them knowing ANYTHING about me..

You see, if you have an agenda, other people can usually sense it. They pick it up in your subtle body language.

When you're teasing and acting Cocky & Funny, a woman says to herself "This guy obviously isn't just trying to pick up on me, because he'd never say some of these things if he were.."

And the more you do it, the more fun it becomes, and the more you don't have an agenda.. and the more attractive you become. Keep up the good work.

And remember: Be ATTRACTIVE, NOT JUST INTERESTING.

David DeAngelo is the author of "Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women", and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.

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