I am often asked, "Marius...do you usually pay on a first date?"

Honestly, I don't mind paying, but I don't go out of the way to pay either. If a woman pulls out her wallet at the same time, I am not going to stop her from paying half.
 

Remember: You want to remain a challenge. Paying will NOT increase a woman's attraction for you. She may think, "He's a nice guy", but she's not going to think, "Oh! He bought me dinner! I should sleep with him right now!"

In fact, she will probably think, "Oh crap. He just bought me an expensive dinner.
What does he expect in return?
Oh crap. I don't want to have to repay him in the backseat of his car..."

Do you see how buying a woman expensive things can actually CREATE resistance now?

Women DON'T want to feel like whores. Even if a woman is highly sexual, she doesn't want you to feel like she's only having sex with you because you bought her dinner!

Solution?
Instead of trying to impress your date with your money, focus on raising the SEXUAL TENSION instead!

Remember: At the end of the day, attraction cuts through EVERYTHING - even money.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women