A QUESTION FROM A READER:
Dear Joseph,

I have a friend that always seems to know when to tell a woman that she's beautiful and it scores him major points. I, myself, never seem to get the timing down and it's been hit or miss, more often miss. Is there a certain criteria to know when or should I just say it when I feel like it?

Mike
MY RESPONSE:

Surprisingly, this is a rather hard question to answer.

Why?

Because the answer is: It depends.

There are certain factors involved in telling a woman she's beautiful that can both help you or hinder you.

I've used the "Your beautiful" line as a compliment opener in the past, with mixed results.

When done right, it can be very effective.

When done wrong, you can shoot yourself in the foot.

Here's why...

Seducing a woman has a great deal to do with controlling the dynamic of the interaction you have.

I'm a strong advocate of something I like to call "active disinterest" when it comes to approaching a woman.

When you approach a woman with a "your beautiful" line, you run the risk of displaying "active interest."

In other words: You're being aggressive.

Sometimes this works. Sometimes it doesn't.

However, I know what you mean when you ask if there is a certain criteria to be followed when telling a woman she's beautiful.

Here are my thoughts on the subject...
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About the author:

Joseph Matthews is the Author of The Art of Approaching Women a Breakthrough starter kit that will dramatically increase your success with women.