By Kevin Bates (Q&A Session)

***QUESTION*** 

How u doing kev??

I see many hot girls every day but i don't know how
to start the talk :(. And something else, even if i
start the talk i don't know what to talk with her
about.

i hope u can help me kev.

Mr. X, Malaysia

>>>Kevin B 's Answer:  

First step is go get my eBook. It's lays out step
by step how to start conversations with women you've
just met, and how to keep the conversations going.

But for now, let me share a very interesting story:

This last week a friend of mine was on a business trip.

On the way through the airport he noticed a cute
worker at the security checkpoint.

He said one thing to her, and instantly she was smiling.

You know what he said?

Would you LIKE to know what he said?

I thought you would.

What he said was:

"Are you checking me out...again?"

A simple statement, right?

Okay, so what's going on here:

He used something I talk a lot about, which is
TEASING women into feeling attraction for you.

He was also setting up the "frame" of attraction
by starting a sexually charged conversation.

And, the whole thing had an element of humor in
it.

Whenever humor works its because there is a piece
of truth in it.

The truth in this situation is that the woman actually
was looking at him.

Was she checking him out?

Probably not.

But by interpreting what she was doing in a sexual,
assumptive way, he pushed the attraction buttons in
her.

INSTANTLY.

Now, are these magical words?

Absolutely not.

If you go out and try the same thing, are you going
to have the same success?

Maybe, maybe not.

It depends on how you communicate, as well as how
much of your inner psychology you have handled.

Some guys just need a quick technique like this, and
because they have the psychology stuff handled they
go out and instantly have success.

But most guys need to work on it more. Because without
the inner psychology stuff addressed (like confidence,
need for approval, etc.), she'll see right through
the technique, see that you haven't developed into to
a masculine, strong man yet, and it simply won't
"work."

If you think you still have a ways to go into
developing into this strong man that naturally attracts
women, here's two piece of advice:

1) go get my eBook to get an education
2) take action anyway. Don't wait. Don't use your
lack of confidence as an excuse NOT to take action.
The interesting thing is taking action is a big
step in building your confidence.

So do it.

Oh, and one more thing:

After flirting with the security woman, my friend
went on to have a fun, attraction-based conversation
with a woman sitting next to him while waiting for
the plane, and another one with a woman who was
busy reading a magazine, and of course another one
with the two women he choose to sit down between on
the flight itself.

Kevin Bates is the author of the killer ebook Any Woman, Anywhere that will give you a fool-proof, step-by-step, day-by-day plan on how to meet and date the women you want. It's especially focused on helping the average "nice guy" develop the specific skills he needs to fix his situation.

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