A lot of guys are looking for a way to approach a woman without having to risk rejection.

And I know that what I am about to say goes AGAINST all the popular advice on ways to progress an interaction and avoid rejection.

But the TRUTH is, the attitude and the tactics of trying to avoid rejection will WEAKEN your WHOLE VIBE.

Instead, EMBRACE the OPPORTUNITY for GETTING the woman you want, and focus on THAT, rather than on focusing on how to prevent rejection.

You either learn all the ways to SUCCEED, or you learn all the ways to NOT LOSE TOO BADLY.

You CAN'T really do both.

And really, who cares about not losing too badly here?
What, are you risking millions of dollars here?
What does this attitude of avoiding rejection give you in this area of your life?

"Not losing too badly" in this area of your life is really just an EMOTIONAL PERSPECTIVE that is LUDICROUS, as the main thing is either you SUCCEED or you DON'T.

As Yoda said "Do or do not. There is no try.".

Yes, success is NOT always guaranteed. HOWEVER, I DO GUARANTEE YOU THAT THE BEST WAY TO GET IT IS TO FOCUS ON IT AND NOT ON AVOIDING REJECTION.

If you are focused on avoiding rejection, you WON'T do the things that are CRUCIAL for ATTRACTION.

You won't be SEXUAL.
You won't PUSH the interaction beyond the typical boring comfort zone.
You won't rock the boat at all.
You won't be edgy and playful and daring.
You won't invade her "personal space" soon in the conversation, in a confident way that actually turns her on with your confidence.

If a woman is sitting in a group of ten female friends, you won't work your way into her, you won't risk losing the approval of the group, you won't risk being rejected in front of them, you won't risk "pushing your luck" by moving to their table, or playfully telling them to move over because you have to tell her something, etc.

SCREW THE IDEA OF AVOIDING REJECTION!!!
You can't win BIG TIME if you are focused on that.

Instead, think of rejection as the GREATER glory (since you actually BATTLED VALIANTLY to get her compared to going for the 100% EMOTIONAL SAFETY option).

You are a MAN now, and that means that MOMMY can't always TUCK YOU IN and make all the boo-boos go away.

SO WHAT?

You see a woman you like, you don't look for the ways to AVOID REJECTION. You look for the ways to GET her.

In fact, if a woman sees you are looking for ways to avoid rejection, well THAT is uncool.

She's just a woman, and though she may be a feminine wonder that Mother Nature designed to make you feel ALIVE, (and I know what that can do to our minds), but still, she is just one woman, and there ARE many more. So rejection is NOT a big deal. Trying to AVOID it is the real problem.

That's the irony, if you don't want to get rejected, then EMBRACE it as a TINY COST compared to the AWESOME FEELING OF GETTING HER!!!!!!

A lot of guys think that being sexual may be giving her the impression that SHE is the prize and not you. But the thing is, as I explain in MASSIVE detail in my advanced CD set, ultimately you DO want a woman to feel MASSIVE SELF-ESTEEM. So, as long as you are showing super confident body language, tonality, and demeanor, then the fact is that your being sexual now will only FURTHER PROVE your confidence and your value, ESPECIALLY if you can add in a bit of playful spice to make this a FUN experience and not a "confrontation" at all.

So, once you are a guy who comes across with TOTAL COMFORT, EASE, PLAYFULNESS, AND CONFIDENCE, well then your sexual demeanor is WELCOMED and DESIRED.

The trick is to do this while still having a classy overall demeanor. A bit of humor helps. Think more Bond and less Jackass.

It makes her feel GOOD that a desirable guy WANTS her.

And more than just that, it simply FEELS good for her to be aroused in a sexual way. And she wants more of that.

Buying a woman dinners and doing her favors does not arouse her in a sexual way, to say the least.

Michael The Dating Wizard has developed a program that helps men "Naturally Attract Women" instead of using memorized pick up lines or someone elses material and methods The Dating Wizard shows you how to be the YOU woman naturally want with his ebook Secrets to Success With Women