Some common reasons that men give for "taking it slow" with women are:

-He doesn't want to hurt her

-Doesn't know if she is like that

-She doesn't seem to be like that

-Doesn't want her to think that it is more that what it is

All of these reasons are based on what the man thinks she wants and not necessarily what she really thinks.

What makes it even better is the fact that he wouldn't be taking it slow if she wanted to or he knew that she wanted to take things faster.

Instead of doing what he wants or even what she wants he is doing what he thinks she wants which more than likely is not what she wants.

Women are followers and if they don't like where someone is leading them they will tell them to slow down or stop following.

However, when you lead a woman by taking it slow she has no other option besides stop.

As a follower she can only go as fast as the leader as anything faster than that would mean she is the leader.

It is important to realize you can only do what you want to do if you want to control your happiness and success with women.

Otherwise, you simply are a follower and the type of woman you think take it slow are not leaders and two followers never get together without a leader.

What is even worse is the types of women that want to lead men are not the type of women you will be happy following in a relationship.

Bottom line go as fast as you would like to go and let her tell you when she would like for you to slow down and take it from there.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com