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Articles by Teddy Shabba

 

Three Old-School ways to meet the EASY girl

I'd like to spend a moment talking about one of my favorite topics.

Making meeting women EASY. 

For those of you who like meeting women to be HARD, you may want to take a break from reading this article and go back to doing 1000 of sets per week, spending time only hitting on women in the MOST difficult situations, and otherwise beating your head against a wall.

For the REST of you I'd like to go back to the three Old-school classics that you may have heard, but are worth reviewing.  

EASY TIP # 1:   Spend MORE time meeting women throughout your daily life, and LESS time GOING OUT to meet women.

After all, the women you meet through out your daily life are MUCH more likely to: 

-- Be alone and free from friends and logistical distractions

-- Live/work near when you live and or work

-- Be free of psychological issues, drama, and other problems

-- Be in great shape (as opposed to girls you meet in bars and clubs)

-- Meet you for a casual meet-up, or even spend some time with you right at an initial meeting

-- Feel comfortable with you (as opposed to some guy they 'met in a bar or club')

-- Have hobbies/interests/lifestlye choices in common with you

-- Rationalize sleeping with you as opposed to some guys she met at a bar or club

-Have there 'guard down' and be open to meeting you in the firstplace

EASY TIP # 2: Work MORE on you RAPPORT game then your ATTRACTION game

Guys have trouble with this one, since for most of us dudes our 'attraction' filter is much stronger then women's.

(If you don't believe me spend a few minutes walking around a nice neighborhood where all the women are smokin' hot, and notice how 'average' the guys seem to you. By and large they are not attractive. And yes, most of these guys have money, but it's the confidence and there ability to connect with women that got them the hotties.

(The fact that there are SO MANY rich guys who can't get an attractive woman interested in them is proof of this.)

The truth is, for a women, you NOT being a 'creepy' guy is much more important then you being a STUD.

If a woman doesn't consider you an option and isn't physically interested in you, then you'll know this right away when you do the hand test (you ARE doing the hand test within 3 minutes aren't' you?!).

Worst case is you waste three minutes.

If your rapport game is poor you waste much more time, perhaps spending 20 minutes with a girl only to find things go nowhere.

This advice is especially important when you follow EASY TIP # 1.

Contrary to all the BS you may have read about mythical 9's and 10's - REAL women of quality do NOT have strong barriers in their day-to-day life.

And they are often waiting for a normal, decent, together guys with a strong dose of physical confidence would come up to her in the bookstore and sweep her off her feet.

EASY TIP # 3: Get GOOD at the first Meet UP

Guys often ask me what percentage of women I approach open up and genuinely engage me in conversation. Or they will often ask me what percentage of the time I can get a phone number.

To date, I can not think of a SINGLE time a student has asked me how many of my first dates I am able to dovetail into second dates should I choose to.

Doesn't really make sense if you think about it.

After all, starting a conversation takes just 30 seconds.

Getting to the point where I would ask a women out takes 10 to 15 minutes tops. (Often more like 3 or 4 minutes as was the case with my current girlfriend)

But going out with a women takes anywhere from 45 minutes to two hours or much much more - not to mention all the disappointment when a date doesn't go well.

If you are great at approaching women and getting the date, but you suck at the first meet up you are going to waste a LOT of time, my friend. Not to mention the heartbreak of so many missed connections.

This may be a tough lesson if you're not getting as many dates as you'd like, but getting GREAT at the first meet up is by far the best thing you can do to skyrocket your results with women.

It's also the funnest, and easiest part of your game to improve.

Getting good means doing a lot of them. I recommend short simple 40 minute interactions so you can practice.

And yes, you need to do as many of them as possible even if it means going on date with women who aren't 9' and 10's.

After all, these are just quick little get togethers, and there is nothing wrong with meeting up with women you are not necessarily planning on hooking up with.

Starting with the women you are attracting now, and get your first date interactions tight can really get your confidence up. This will not only improve your future dates, but also your ability to get MORE dates down the road.

Besides, as you really start mastering the first meetup you'll find a lot more to be attracted to in some of these women then you ever imagined.

More on that later.

Now go meet some women - the EASY way,

Your friend,

Lance Mason

PickUp 101 creator Lance Mason and his team of experts have created Surefire Attraction Secrets in order to provide men the foundation to build upon to succed with women

 

 

   

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