One of the biggest reasons why a lot of men don’t approach women that they are attracted to is because they fear that they will somehow be bothering her if they do approach her.

It is also why so many men desire to know the “subtle cues” that women give off to let them know that it is safe for him to approach that way you will know for sure that you aren’t bothering her and when you do that it makes it a win/win for everyone.

Here are my thoughts on these particular self-made hurdles that some men choose to create for themselves when it comes to approaching and attracting women.

First, women in general are flattered when a man approaches them in an “authentic way” unless they happen to be bothered with life in general.

Second, when you approach a woman in an “authentic way” if she is busy or doesn’t want to talk to you odds are she will let you know that she doesn’t want to talk to you or is busy and if not that’s her problem not yours.

Now, in regards to looking for subtle cues truth be told there are lots of them, however, it is really much easier to simply step up to the plate and take your swings rather than taking a guess because for the majority of the population that’s all those subtle cues will really be are guesses.

In other words, if you truly want to attract and have the kind of women that you want in your life at a certain point (like right now) you are going to have to be willing to risk “bothering” a woman.

Otherwise, you might find yourself waiting for a very long time to happen upon a woman that exhibits all of the signs of a woman that is looking to be bothered by you or even worse you just might end up settling for a woman that is less than you want.