It's politically correct for a man to say that he is looking for a relationship with a woman that is relatively equal.

Not only does it sound better than saying you want to dominate and control your relationship, it doesn't sound as weak as saying that you want to be dominated and controlled in your relationship.

While most women might agree that in theory this sounds like the way it should or even must be, the truth is, somebody is always in control of the relationship.

Other than you just handing over control on a silver platter, the second easiest way for a woman to control a man is to get him to agree that equality is the way the relationship should be.

Now, some of you might be thinking - wouldn't that also mean it's the second easiest way for a man to control a woman?

Once you understand that maintaining your power is the strength of a man and taking away power is the strength of a woman.

You can see why women have two ways to gain control of the relationship and men can only maintain control.

Sure it is possible to regain control as a man, but in reality you are giving her the same amount of control whether you call it equality or domination.

Hopefully you have already realized that a truly equal relationship would be one in which she maintains full control and you maintain full control and the decisions that you make happen to be the same.

In the end, the only way you can ever be in an equal relationship with a woman is by making sure you maintain full control over yourself and the decisions that you make.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com