When it comes to being successful to picking up a woman, it's REALLY important that you understand the BIG PICTURE of the interaction.

One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is that they take a concept and either beat it to death, or use it at the wrong TIME.

This occurs because the guy is too focused on a SPECIFIC detail or tactic as opposed to the PURPOSE of the tactic.

So, similar to language, the point of learning the rules is to create MORE IMPACT.
That means that sometimes you can break a rule in order to create the right EFFECT.

For example, being PLAYFUL is an excellent general concept to use with women, it works because it says "hey, let's have some fun and PLAY" - it gives a woman license to suspend her normal reality and enjoy some play time.

It also allows her a license to be more sexual (of course, not crazy sexual at first) because it is just "play".

The thing is, let's say you are doing this, and the woman LIKES you, she's enjoying it, but she now wants to get to know MORE about you. Meanwhile, let's say you keep on playing and playing and playing.

Like let's say you are being playful, and you jokingly respond to all her questions, about who you are, your name, your job, etc., etc.

But you HAVE TO KNOW the difference whether she is asking you these questions simply
to "fill the void", (i.e. her socially conditioned response to just blurt out boring programmed questions) or because she is AUTHENTICALLY INTERESTED IN YOU.

So if a woman is asking you questions about yourself after you've been chatting her up for 20 minutes, and you keep on avoiding any serious answer, she'll just think you're slightly PSYCHO, or at least a bit weird, and not in a very good way.

If a woman is already interested in you, and seriously showing you that she is interested, and you keep playing the "smartass' type, it's downright WEIRD.

Think of it this way:
Imagine a SUPER HOT girl came up to you, because for whatever reason she knows or thinks you THE MAN, and you know you are THE MAN too.

She starts joking with you and seems pretty cool. After 20 minutes, you ask her for her number. Then, she starts joking to you that she's not that easy.

You laugh for a bit, but you don't really understand what the heck she wants from your life, since after all, she came over to you.

Then, she CONTINUES to joke around with you.

You kind of laugh, because it's a bit funny, but at the same time, you're wondering what she's all about.

So you ask her some questions, like if she goes to school around here, what her name is, what her hobbies are, and to each question, she just clowns around.

Now, you're probably thinking: hey, I'm THE MAN, I don't need this weird Sh**.

Then, she asks YOU for your number, she suddenly gets "serious". Now, you're thinking "I dunno, she's kind of WEIRD".

Well, that's exactly what chicks feel if you don't know when to act normal.

This is just ONE example of paying ATTENTION to the situation- to what she is thinking and feeling, and to what YOU are doing to cause that effect.

This is why no technique exists in a vacuum. Everything is part of a CONTEXT.

Here's another example:
After approaching many women, you might actually start to find that you are so smooth, that women are instantly attracted to your confidence, but also SUSPICIOUS of your smoothness.

The fact that you are funny, laid back, and able to go on and on about hilarious stuff or interesting stuff can be TOO MUCH.

You'll notice that the women will be INSTANTLY attracted, they will be making strong eye contact, touching you, laughing, and then they might suddenly say something like "hey, are we on TV or something? Are you part of some show? Is there a camera somewhere?"

All because they've never had someone so smooth relaxed and laid back and having TOO MANY interesting things to say.

You might actually have to remember how to CHILL and slow it down.

There are SUBTLE things going on in every interaction, and you need to be aware of them for maximum success. Don't get all nervous thinking you should be overly ANALYTICAL while chatting to a woman, just don't make the mistake that some guys do, where they are like a robot talking without an off switch.

This is why I say to try to NOT memorize any more material than you feel you absolutely have to.

Guys that memorize stuff too much tend to have that problem of just spitting out endless stuff because they don't feel comfortable TRULY ping-ponging the energy back and forth with some real diaologue with her.

But that kind of real vibing is essential.

Sometimes you'll notice that a woman is ALREADY interested in you, she might tell you something like "Would you like to go for a walk?" and if a guy doesn't realize she is already interested, he might RUIN everything by making jokes like "hehehe.no way, I'm not that easy!! once she in fact has already moved into SERIOUS mode.

Now she is getting a feeling of REJECTION, of ridicule, of fearing you are just playing with her.

My point here is to help you become AWARE of the subtleties.

Michael The Dating Wizard has developed a program that helps men"Naturally Attract Women" instead of using memorized pick up lines or someone elses material and methods The Dating Wizard shows you how to be the YOU woman naturally want with his ebook Secrets to Success With Women