After wanting to know why she broke up with you and sometimes before, usually comes you wanting to know who she is already seeing that caused her to breakup with you.

She has broken up with you and you simply know there must be a "who"; who caused her to break up with you.

Just like why, who might be an open ended question but usually has a one word response of nobody or if she is being honest and there is someone else a name.

However in regards to you, whether or not there really is a "who" doesn't matter because either way you have to deal with the reality of her not being attracted to you anymore.

Granted, if there is somebody else your chances of getting her back increase tremendously because obviously you offer her something that she needs and can't get on her own (no matter what you think, great sex isn't going to keep her).

Yet, that type of woman is also more likely to cheat on you again and leave you again and again.

In fact, if there really is a "who" in many ways you are worse off than those who exes broke up without a "who" as you have two people that control your chances of her coming back to you.

Your first concern is his attraction level lowering lower than yours (highly unlikely) or him dumping her.

Then this will lead you to your second concern; her feeling of self worth lowering so much that she would be willing to go back to the kind of man who would be willing to accept her back after she left him for another man.

Now taking her back just makes it that much easier for any other man to come along and take her from you again and again.

The irony of it all is if you had simply moved on when she broke up with you, she would have been more than willing to reveal the "who" if there was a who and it would've been your best chance to get her back as well.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com