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Articles by Teddy Shabba

 

5 Ways To Instantly Attract More Women

Do you ever feel like it's a lot of "work" to meet women?

 

And you wonder why it has to be so hard?  

(Here's a hint - it DOESN'T HAVE TO!)

 

Most of the men I've coached over the last 10 years are men who are sincere and really try to learn the best way to meet women, but still struggle ...

 

... and I hate seeing how frustrated they are!  

They tell me how they've read everything out there on how to meet women.

 

They've done what all the so-called "dating gurus" recommend.  

They tell me they've tried EVERY "trick," pick-up line, scripted "routine" and "method" that all these so-called experts claims to work --

 

They may have even (although they are often pretty embarrassed to admit it) gone so far as to have tried some crazy outfit or nickname ...  

(It's okay, we won't tell anyone if you have)

 

Yet it still isn't working and they're not meeting (and more importantly not ATTRACTING) the kind of women they REALLY want to meet ...  

Worse yet ...

 

Even if some of these pick-up lines or routines have managed to help them talk to a woman - or even get a date with a woman - there is still TWO HUGE PROBLEMS.  

And these are pretty major ones too ...

 

===> Problem 1: NONE of these help you to develop REAL and DEEP INNER CONFIDENCE (they basically teach you how to FAKE confidence)  

AND

 

===> Problem 2: ALL of these other methods still leave you chasing after women instead of showing you how to ATTRACT women.  

NOT GOOD ... and kinda the two things you most want, right? 

 

Do you ever see guys who women just seem to be drawn to ... and these guys don't even seem like they're TRYING?  

Do you wonder how it is so EASY for some guys to attract women when it feels like it's so HARD for YOU?

 

Do you wish that meeting women could be less frustrating and more fun?  

I HAVE GOOD NEWS - and I'm here to tell you that your frustration can come to an end ... PERMANENTLY!

 

What I see so many men missing in their approach to learning how to meet and attract women is that they don't ENJOY THEMSELVES and their life ...  

... and, YES, this does impact your dating life!

 

Meeting women is not about memorizing pick-up lines or routines.  

Being "attractive" starts with you understanding that YOU have the power to be attractive RIGHT NOW!

 

By creating an amazing lifestyle and being passionate about the things you do, you will start attracting women instead of spending your life chasing them and hoping you'll connect with them.  

Women (and everyone in fact) are attracted to fun, positive, interesting and well-rounded individuals.

 

If you're miserable or doing things that you don't enjoy, you are not going to to meet women no matter what system or "method" you use to do it.  

Makes sense, right?

 

The reason is that no one wants to meet someone who is miserable or spending their life doing things they don't like.  

So before you go out and try to meet women, you need to first figure out how to create a passionate lifestyle for YOURSELF.

 

Think for a second about the kind of women to whom you are attracted.  

(and remember that we know that most people are attracted to people who are positive, energetic and interesting)

 

Now think about what type of person you are right now.  

Are you that positive, energetic and interesting person I just described?

 

OR ...  

Are you someone who is miserable and angry because you FEEL like you can't meet someone?

 

It all starts with creating an amazing lifestyle for yourself so that YOU feel great - Do this and you WILL attract amazing women into your life!  

And YOU DESERVE AMAZING WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE!

 

I want to get you started right NOW on creating your amazing lifestyle, so to help you get started, here are 5 ways that doing so will help you instantly attract more women:

 

***TIP #1: REEVALUATE YOUR WORK ENVIRONMENT*** 

One of the first (and most important) things you need to do to create an amazing lifestyle is to take a very critical eye to your current work environment. Because work is something most of us HAVE to do, we sometimes don't expect that it is also something we can want to do (or at least not hate doing).

 

Think about your current work environment.  

Do you have a boss who is consistently demeaning? Do you dislike most of your co-workers? Do you dread going into work every day?

 

If your work environment is toxic and causing you to be miserable, then it's time to reevaluate whether it's time for a change.

 

If you are working in a toxic environment, consider whether you are staying there because you are comfortable and don't want to have to push your own boundaries.  

What does this have to do with your dating life?

 

If you stay in a work environment that makes you miserable and angry, then understand that miserable and angry is what you are going to project to everyone around you (whether you intend to or not) --  

-- including all the women you are trying so hard to attract!

 

***TIP #2: DO THE THINGS YOU LOVE*** 

So many men go to places they believe they "should" go or "have to" go in order to meet women, but which are places they don't enjoy being at all.

 

Is it really any wonder they have trouble meeting women in these places?  

Instead of going to places that don't interest you or where you don't enjoy going, pick five things YOU really love to do.

 

Then ask yourself whether there are women present at each of those five things. If not, then go deeper and find five things you're either already interested in or about which you would like to learn and go to these places to meet women.  

When you go to places that interest you, you'll already have things to talk about and will naturally bond with people.

 

There's a good reason you struggle to come up with things to say to women in a bar (or other places you may not enjoy being).  

It's because when you're someplace you really don't like, you have to manufacture conversations instead of just talking about what's already interesting to you.

 

***TIP #3: BE OPEN*** 

Positive people are open to new experiences. So instead of expecting to meet women when you go out and getting totally disappointed if you don't, be open to what the day or night might present to you.

 

Being open means talking to EVERYONE with which you come into contact -- and not just to WOMEN you find attractive.  

Just because you are not attracted to the person you're talking to doesn't mean you shouldn't be open and friendly.

 

You never know, for instance, if that person may have a woman friend they're meeting later with whom you might end up totally connecting.  

Bottom Line ...

 

Be open to ANYTHING and EVERYTHING.  

Because people who are open to whatever presents itself to them ALWAYS meet and attract people.

 

Remember that every connection you make with someone leads to another, and you never know who or what that next connection might bring into your life.  

***TIP #4: FIND YOUR INNER CHILD***

 

Here is a concept that so many men do not understand and which keeps them from meeting women ...

 

One of the biggest parts of being attractive to women is being fun and approachable. That means when you go anywhere, don't just "show up."  

You need to embrace the moment and approach everything with a child-like enthusiasm. Smile, talk to people, ask questions and ENJOY YOURSELF.

 

During a recent coaching weekend with several male clients, instead of just "taking them out to meet women" I took them to the beach and had them build sand castles. The reason I did this was to teach them how to have fun and not to be so serious.

 

Life is about having fun just like you did when you were a kid. You are attractive when you're enjoying yourself and your life.  

***TIP #5: USE "THE LAW OF ATTRACTION"***

 

If you've been wondering how all these "public perception" type of tips relate to how attractive YOU will be to women -- here's where I will show you!  

Here's where how you behave in public will affect how successful you will be at attracting women.

 

It's called attraction for a reason ...  

When you walk into a place and start talking to a bunch of different people, other people will line up and want to talk to you

 

INCLUDING all those women you've been trying so hard to meet.

If you're angry, you are going to attract angry people and you will spend your day in constant confrontations.  

BUT if you walk around in life having fun, having casual conversations and enjoying every step of the journey - even if you're just running an errand to the market - you are going to attract great people into your life.

 

People are attracted to people having a good time and who are enjoying their life. No one wants to hang out with a person who is pouting, folding their arms and looking miserable.  

That's why it's so important if you want to attract women that you create a lifestyle.

 

Creating a lifestyle is all about learning to genuinely enjoy your life every day. Do things that you love and enjoy them.  

Embrace every single moment.

 

And Trust Me --  

By doing these things, you will NATURALLY START ATTRACTING WOMEN!

 

Better Yet... You will start attracting them RIGHT AWAY.  

By being more open, not only will you start talking to more people, but more people will notice your openness and start talking to YOU.

 

Imagine YOU being that "intriguing guy" women just can't seem to resist approaching.  

Imagine YOU never again being nervous or being at a loss for words around women...

 

Imagine KNOWING that you can connect with ANY woman you want, and never worrying about the outcome...  

Imagine being EXCITED to go out every day and talk to women...

 

So why continue to chase after women you want to meet when you can start attracting them?  

YOU have the power within you right now to attract the women you most desire RIGHT NOW and every day!

 

Create an amazing lifestyle and be passionate about the things you do - you WILL start attracting women.  

Start taking responsibility for your own dating life, and you'll start improving it immediately!

 

You deserve to enjoy an amazing dating life.  

David Wygant has been helping men and women achieve the happiness that they desire in a relationship feel free to check out his book Date To Win

 

     

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