Most women who want to get married are really in love with the idea of marriage.

What this means for a man in a serious relationship is that there may come a time when she gives you the ultimatum "Marry Me or Else!"

Most women never really tell you what the "else" is because they know if you knew what "else" meant, you would choose else every single time.

I am here to tell you when a woman says "Marry Me or Else" it can only mean one of two things.

1. .Marry me or else I will be force to give up my fantasy about getting married because I Love you more than anything or anyone else in this world and as long as you are my man that's all that matters.
2. Marry me or else I will leave you because getting married is the most important thing in my life. My fantasy has always been to have a husband and you just happen to be the "qualified" man around. If you say no then I will simply move on to the next "qualified" man that is ready to get married.

Now I know for some men the choice is going to be an easy one to make, because you know you deserve a woman who Loves and cherishes you. When the times comes that you decide you want to get married you will be with a woman who waited for you to decide and you will be truly happy.

Yet, for many men the choice is going to be a very difficult choice to make. Do you say no and risk losing the woman who you thought was great and really loved you for you, or do you say yes and never really know if she loves you or simply the idea of marriage.

If you are a man who is having difficulty on deciding if you should get married, I would suggest that before you make any decision on marriage you first work on improving your self so that you can begin to realize that not only do you deserve a beautiful woman who Loves you for you but that you can also attract this beautiful woman as well.

Men who get married because of an ultimatum will find that they are never happy in their newfound relationship not only because you will not know if your wife loves you but because you will have lost all self-respect as well.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com