What If Your Girlfriend Hangs Up On You
A question I often get is, "Marius,what should I do if a woman hangs up on me?"
Well, it depends on the situation.
If she's a girl you've just met or are just dating casually, then just delete her number and move on. (Good riddance!)
But if she is your girlfriend, then things are a bit trickier since you're kind of in a lose-lose situation:
If you call back, her romantic respect and attraction may drop, and if you don't, the incident could be "used" against you in the future. (It doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong. All she will remember is that she cried for hours because you didn't call back.)
So here is what I suggest:
After she hangs up on you, call her back ONCE and see if she answers. If she does, then good.
But if she doesn't, then simply leave a message telling her to call you back and then DO NOT CALL AGAIN UNTIL SHE DOES.
If she doesn't call for a week, then don't call for a week.
This way, you will demonstrate you *have* tried calling back, but she was the one who didn't accept it. And since you did not keep on calling her like a little puppy, her romantic respect for you shouldn't lower.
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women.
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