***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hi Michael,

What is jealousy and why do a lot of guys experience it? is it something we're missing? is it low self esteem or is it a trust issue?

i'm so lost and can't understand why i feel the way i feel. I'm a good
looking guy and have a lot of things going for me but for some reason i find myself pretty jealous with girl i truly care for....why is that??? and how can i stop it?

Samuel, Canada

>>>MY RESPONSE<<<

This is a topic I go into full detail on in my Seduction Mastery program, and it's something that EVERY GUY should know, otherwise we are all walking time-bombs that will ruin any potential with any woman, GUARANTEED.

But before I go any further, let me first state that this is an issue that a LOT of women have as well, so mastering an understanding of this is something that will not only help you develop your own charisma, but will also help you understand the woman you are with, which will be very useful as well.

Now, the reality is that jealousy IS a very HUMAN emotion, so nobody should feel like it's something evil that they should NEVER feel, at ALL, ever, etc.

We're living in a very crazy society that likes to pretend that jealousy is something that is not a force to be reckoned with at all.

There's no respect for the fact we are HUMAN in this way, so what happens is that people do all kinds of crazy stuff that ruins the trust between two people.

There's a great book on this by David M. Buss, professor of psychology at The University of Texas at Austin, known for his evolutionary psychology research on human sex differences in mate selection.

The book is called "The Dangerous Passion -Why Jealousy Is as Necessary as Love and Sex".

To be blunt, if we couldn't feel ANY jealousy at ALL, we wouldn't have
any chemistry either. We could say goodbye to the human race then.

So, when I see couples constantly TREADING on dangerous waters, I know they are playing with fire, and it almost ALWAYS ends up disastrous.

Jealousy is powerful enough as it is, it requires RESPECT and wisdom to deal with it and prevent it.

The worst thing is when people think they are all above it -- then they end up being unprepared for it when it hits them like a brick wall.

Since jealousy is an EMOTION and not always rational, it's important to realize that although two people should not be OBSESSIVE about preventing it, they SHOULD keep in mind how their behavior would affect the other person and how the other person's behavior would affect them, and thus practice the golden rule of treating the other person the way they themselves would want to be treated.

Now, to dig a little deeper here: The question then becomes is this something that is an ongoing issue. Then it's a problem.

Jealousy is nothing but SOCIAL PROOF of someone ELSE'S value, to the point that we question our OWN value in comparison.

If you are interested in a woman in a romantic/sexual/loving way, then of course you must feel that HER choosing to be with YOU is meaningful to you.

Her choice to be with you is meaningful because it helps validate your own sense of worth.

You VALUE her feelings on your worth because you feel she is desirable herself.

So you feel she is an "authority" on who is desirable.

So, in this case, if she were to VALUE someone ELSE more, then it would mean to you that he must have GREATER value.

And it will mean to you that YOU must be LESS valuable than him, all because HE was "socially proofed" by HER!

You might not think anything of him otherwise, but now that SHE likes him, you think somehow he's special. Total living example of social proof.

And from an evolutionary perspective, this got people motivated to work harder to get the attention of that person- which would be fine if you were an ass to her and needed that to get you jump-started, but would be bad if you already were treating her well and she was using this to get you to kiss up to her.

So it all boils down to how YOU feel about your SELF even when there are massive external social forces acting upon you.

Now, here's the thing:
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