I am often asked, "What should I do if my girlfriend is jealous?"

Well.it depends on HOW jealous she is.

If she's a normal woman who gets jealous every once in awhile, then you don't have too much to worry about. In fact, it's good that she DOES gets a bit jealous every now and then. It shows she still sees you as a stud.

In that case, you can just "defuse" her jealousy by teasing her playfully . For example, if your girlfriend calls a woman a bitch after the woman talks to you at a party, just say something like, "Nah. She's not a bitch. She just has good taste. And so do you." Then give her a kiss.

Problem solved.

But if your girlfriend is one of those women with a "chronic" jealousy problem, then you're in trouble.

Never forget that a person's jealousy usually comes from insecurity. This is why EVERYONE gets jealous every once in awhile.because nobody is perfect and we all do have our own insecurities.

So if a woman is VERY jealous ALL THE TIME, it's a sign that she is very insecure.

And guess what?

Insecurity means low self-esteem, and low self-esteem means BAD CHARACTER.

If you're a student of the "Smart Dating System", then you already know what bad character means.

FIND ANOTHER WOMAN!

I have said this a thousand times and I will say it again:

Remember that you cannot change a woman's character. You have to accept her for who she is BEFORE you enter the relationship. If you try to play therapist, her attraction for you is going to drop very fast and you'll most likely end up as her "friend".

In other words, you CANNOT do anything to "help" her become less jealous. You cannot cure a woman's jealousy or insecurity. It's something that she has to do on her own.

The other alternative, of course, is to learn to "tolerate" her jealousy. But let me warn you now: as time
goes on, it will get harder and harder, and you'll probably be in for a very rough ride.

You have been warned!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women