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I recieved a rather short, sweet, and intriguing question recently...
A QUESTION
Do women really know what they are looking for in a relationship?
--from Chilibean
AN ANSWER
Now that's a loaded question if I ever heard one, lol.
Here's the thing...
Different women have different expectations about what they want from a man and a relationship.
For example, a young woman may not know what she wants in a relationship simply because she isn't experienced enough to know what's important to her yet.
A more mature woman, one who's been in a lot of different relationships, may know exactly what she's looking for in a relationship.
But there's one thing all types of women know about before they get into a relationship...
They know what they're ATTRACTED to!
See, the female mind processes things in this manner:
1. Is there something attracting me to this man?
2. Will this man be a good fit for me in the long term?
Usually, number 1 will kick in almost immediately within the first few minutes of meeting a man. They'll start evaluating the man's attraction quotient.
Number two won't kick in until number one has been met.
This means that if you can get a woman really turned on, or even in bed, then she'll immediately start evaluating you based on your potential for a long term relationship.
Women who try and do this backwards, by getting into a relationship and hoping the attraction will grow, usually end up disappointed.
When it comes to what women are actually looking for in a relationship, you can expect these factors to come into play: click here to read more
About the author:
Joseph Matthews is the Author of The Art of Approaching Women a Breakthrough starter kit that will dramatically increase your success with women.
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