What It Means When A Woman Says Give Me One Good Reason To Go Out With You

Sometimes a woman is being a challenge because she is playing hard to get and at other times she is being a challenge because she isn’t attracted to you.

For instance, a lot of men ask me what it means when a woman that they are interested in enough to ask out responds with…

“Give me one good reason I should go out with you?”
Now, in the movies (which is where your mind probably got the idea that this is a challenge that can be overcome); she may indeed being say this because she is playing hard to get with the lead character.

However, in real life when a woman tells you this the vast majority of the time it means she isn’t interested or attracted to you.

Unless the two of you have such a strong rapport and witty banter going back and forth where she would be comfortable enough to say something like this because it is pretty much a foregone conclusion that the attraction is high enough that of course she is going to go out with you.

Unfortunately, if you are asking me what you should do in this kind of situation odds are you weren’t at this kind of level with her and if you were your hesitation or whatever response you gave her was an indication that the two of you weren’t genuinely connected.

Now, if you were paying attention to that last part you will have undoubtedly already realized how you should respond to a woman who questions you like this.

For those of you who weren’t, the most effective response will be the one in which you act as if she is going out with you in the first place.

Of course, if you simply invited her into your life this will be relatively easy to pull off because her showing up or not really doesn’t change anything for you.

If, however, you asked her out on a date it becomes a little bit more challenging since you really do need to know if she is showing up or not in which case whether you like it or not you are more than likely dealing with a woman who isn’t interested in you.

In the end, once you realize that in the moment is the place that you want to be with a woman you will create the kind of connections with women where your response will be based on the connection the two of you have rather than what you think is the best response to get her to go out with you.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com

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