Why You Sometimes Need to Tell "White Lies
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This week I want to talk about dating issues that address the subject of when you should tell what I call, "white lies."
When out on a date with single women sometimes the subject of cheating may be brought up by her in your conversation. She may ask you if you have ever cheated on a woman. She just may be curious or she may be testing you to see if you are the faithful type of guy she is looking for.
Now, don't get me wrong, I totally believe in honesty, but this is one time you must tell a little "white lie" if she ask you if you have ever cheated in a relationship.
Let me tell you why. There's a stigma associated with cheating. The old saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." If you admit to cheating to her in your past relationships, she's going to think you will cheat on her too. And when she knows this she may not be interested in seeing you again.
So, in my opinion, it's best to be candid about cheating. Don't reveal to her anything about being unfaithful. You may think it's no big deal to cheat, but women in general want a man who is honest and a guy she can trust.
Cheating is quite common among both men and women. Have I ever cheated? Yes, I have and I'm not proud of it. It happened a few times when I was in unhappy relationships where I wasn't getting my needs fulfilled, both emotional and physical. So, I sought women on the side who could fulfill my missing needs and desires.
Also, I've been around other women who tempted me with their hot bodies, sexy ways, and beauty. And I could not hold myself back and gave in to temptation. This is what happens when you have your brain between your legs.
Like I said, I'm not proud of my unfaithfulness in the past. Guys, if you find a good woman, stick with her and don't run around on her. It's not fair to her or you. And what's even worse, what if you get caught?
P.S. -This article written by Don Diebel. If you would like more information on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com |
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