What does your girlfriend mean when she says you should both see other people?

As a Smart Dater, it should only mean one thing:her attraction for you has dropped so much that the
relationship is about to end.

A woman does not just wake up one day and want to start seeing other people. Usually, when she wants to see other men outside an existing relationship, it's because she wants to meet other men without feeling guilty OR without facing complete rejection if a man rejects her. (She will still have a guy at home to go home to.)

In other words, your girlfriend only wants to see other guys because she's not attracted to you anymore, but at the same time, she wants to keep you around as a "backup" in case her new boyfriend turns out to be a creep. In fact, she may even see you as a "tool" to get new boyfriend jealous.

So what do you do when a woman wants to "see other people"?

Well, honestly there's not much you can do. If you disagree, she will probably dump you right there since the attraction is so low anyway.

Your best bet is to end the relationship right there OR to agree to see other people too. But either way,
you want to actually start seeing other people and let her know ALL about it. Show her that you ARE capable of attracting other women and that you are NOT going to just sit there and be her "backup plan."

If she freaks out and begs for you to come back, good. Otherwise, just move on. She's not worth your time!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women